Tuesday, November 13, 2018

Boredom & finding yourself

Well, years  have  passed  since I last  penned  anything in my  blog.  Somehow  I  got  sucked  into  the   much  talked  about "Rat race"  I  guess.  Success.. I have  had   a  few  this  2  years. Matter  of  fact ,  I am  beginning  to  enjoy  my  work  more  than  I used  to. So  why  boredom, you ask? Still haven't  quite  figured  it  out ..yet.

Home Cafe  It came as a  pleasant  surprise   that  I  actually  enjoyed  frequenting  cafes  with  nice  ambience (who doesn't?) Then  it  struck  me  that  I   am  confining  myself  to only   the  living  area   and  kitchen  most  of  the time.  So,  I  narrowed  down  the  possibilities  of  what  cafes  have  to offer  and   what  my  apartment  lacks.  For  starters,  I did  a  home  makeover  by  changing   the curtains  which   were   faded  and  torn  and  had  them  replaced    with  shearers   instead.  Then  I  built  myself  a  mini  forest    at the  balcony  to obscure  "Human Baboons"  from  peeping  into  my  apartment.  Next  on the  agenda  was  the  dining  area  which  had   never  been  used  since  "the piece  of  shit's"  demise.


Add  a  table  cloth, some  money  plant  on the  table  and   threw  in some  nice  floral  scented  aroma  therapy. Nice  indeed. Rearranging  or  refurbishing  is  easy,  now  I  must  make  it  a  point   to occupy  those  places  as  intended.  So  I  made  sure  to  have  cooked  dinner  every night  on the  dining  table  and  not  in the  living  area.  There  is   a  place  for  everything, they say.






Bake a Cake  Tried   my  hands  on baking  and  not  just  any  type  of  baking  but  flourless  baking. You  heard  right. That  should  do it  for  my  insatiable  appetite  for  "Latte and  cake"  teatime  moments. What  better  cake  to bake  other than  Hazelnut,  carrot, apples  with  chocolate  chips in it. I  am  rather  proud  of  what  I  have achieved  so far.

Yoga  Hell YES!  Yoga  @ 45. It  is never  too late  to  learn   something  new  and  I chose  Yoga. Why?  I  was   getting  bored  with  the   routine  I  put  myself  thru  with  Bob Harper's  Blackfire  and   kettlebell  is    losing   its  motivation  and  I   thought  back  about  Dr Berg's  advise    on  exercising. It seems  if  we   put  our body  thru  a  lot  of stresses , our  body  may  not  respond  in  the  manner  we  would  normally  expect  instead  it  will  be  counter productive to  achieving our  goals.  So,  that  was   the  catalyst  to how Yoga  and   Qi  Gong  came  into  the  picture. By the   way,  I  learnt  Yoga from  Utube   and   it   was    truly   an eye  opener.   Yoga  is  not  easy as  it  seems. In the  course  of  learning  something new,  of  course  injuries  are  aplenty,  some  misses  and  some  quite  dramatic. (Crash...Blackout..chipped  tooth  and   a dented  flooring  to remind  me  of  my bruised  Ego)  Say  what  you  like  but  I taught  myself  how  to do a  HEAD STAND  and   NO,  it  didn't  cause   the  crash,  if  you are  wondering.  I  think  the hardest  part  was   the   Chatoorangas,  the  wheel  is  still a  work  in progress.   Downward  dog  too initially  created  so  much  discomfort  as  the wrists  weren't   strong  enough   to withstand  the  body weight  bearing  down  so  intensely.  Many  times  I  caught myself  holding  my breath  instead   of breathing  easy. It  was   quite  a  learning  curve  and  I can  safely say  that  I  am  much stronger   now  and  far  more    enjoying   the flow  or rhythm  of Yoga.  My  take  on  this  learning  curve   is  it  truly  works  on your  flexibility  and  areas  that  you  never knew  existed. Don't  give  up,  if  you are  not able  to do  a certain move.  Keep  at  it  and  it will  come to you eventually.

Reading  I  can't   seem  to focus or  I  lose  focus  the minute  I  flipped the  pages. I  think  it is  probably    because  my mind  has  lost  its  focus  and  boredom  is  setting  in...( I  hope  it  is  not depression) Books  I read reminded  me  so much of the  people  I came  in touch  during  the  course  of  my  work.  Watching TV  too  isn't  helping   as  I  get  a sense of   losing  hope  when  everything  that  stands for GOOD, JUSTICE and  HOPE   are  just  battered  day  by  day. Countless  deaths, political  maneuvering,  Trade wars and  more  lies, one  after  the other. The media   too  is  so  overly  engrossed  on  what  Trump  did or  did not do.  So  much  effort  goes  into  assembling  panels  of  people  who  are  supposedly   "Experts in their  respective  field" just  to  analyze  what  is  going on  in  the POTUS's  mind. Who would  have  thought  that  Xenophobics  live  among  us. I  was  naïve   thinking   that I  could  explain  my way  into  some  of  their   hearts  and  try   to make   sense  of  what  makes   a  Chinese  person Chinese. I   have to  say  that  I  am  more  convinced  now  more than  ever   that  there  are  many  people who  are just  so complicit  and  ignorant about  the  world and   the  people  around them. The cliché   of  learning  the culture  of  people  when travelling   the  world  is  often  heard  but  I  think  it  is  exactly  that, just a  cliché.

Blogging That   brings  me  to  this. Strangely, I find it quite  astonishing  that  I  kind  of enjoyed   penning  my thoughts  in this  blog.  This  is the  first  time  in  months that  I found  a  new found purpose and   amazingly  I seem  to be able  to focus  on what  I want to say  clearly.  I will  keep  at it  and   see  where  this  blogging  takes  me. Wish  me  luck!





Thursday, August 7, 2014

The Jewels of Kampung Baru


Jewels in their  own right. Dwarfed  and  surrounded  by  ferocious  development  engulfing   the  city  of  Kuala Lumpur.  These  houses  have  withstood  time  from   its  humble  beginnings in the  early 1890's . Set  aside  as a  permanent agricultural land and  formalised  by the  British as  the  Malay Agricultural  Settlement  in 1899. It's  given  name "Kampung Baru" literally  means  "New  Village" was   adopted   to distinguish  itself  from  the older  Malay  villages  in the surrounding area.








Saturday, August 10, 2013

Bob, the dog who captivated our hearts

  
 

He came  into our  lives in  a  less than  perfect  circumstances. His  early  days  were  harsh  and  for  the  most  part  he  was  unnoticeble. Only to be  fed  when  the humans have  fed themselves  full  and  left  chained  by the  fence.

In a  twist of  fate  or  perhaps  by  sheer  chance 13 years ago, this  poor dog  was  noticed  by  mom  and  he  became  a  new  member  of the family, "The Limlings".

Untrusting and unpredictable  for  the first  few  years   but  mom never  gave up  on him. None   of  us  did. We  were constantly  reminded , never to  hand feed  him. Years  went  past and  eventually  some  of  us  managed  to  do just  that, hand  fed  him. Shirlene  particularly  has  an effect  on him. She  calls  him  "babyyyy" and  he goes weaving between  her legs,  begging  to  be  caress. He even  mumbled  sounds  as  though  he  was  speaking. Mom's  love and compassion turned this  grouchy, banged  up  dog  into  a  cute  cuddly  little  thing, we  fondly call  "Bob". Non fussy  eater,  loved dog snacks especially  after  bathing  and  drying. He  loved  his  toys  too, compliments  from Queennie.

Bob  had his ways  with  each and  everyone  of  us. He  loved  to  be  massage  and  that  was  my special  moments with  him. Eugene's was  the greeting  at the  gates,  each time  he comes home  for the  weekend. For  the  most  part, Bob  grew  old, got to do  what  a dog does..laze around the  house and  lived  a  wonderful  dog  life  in our  home.

Bob  touched  us  all in ways  that  you  could never  imagined, just  as  we had  in his  life  and  he  shall  remain  forever  in  our  hearts. May  he  be  happy  and  find  enormous love  wherever  he  may  be.  
                                             
                  We LOVE  YOU, BOB
                           &
          We MISS  YOU  SO MUCH 
                                                   












Monday, July 22, 2013

Kuala Lumpur on a shoestring

Kuala Lumpur by foot


Keep those lonely planet guides  and  let's just  go  walking.  No  more  time  wasted  trying  to read  and  absorb  what  is  around you.  Let's  just  go back  to  BASICS!

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Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Stitch & Me



Look what have I found..Stitch! I am fond of it cos it reminds me of me. Blue, undescribably cute, can be mischievous at times, endowed with great strength and kind at heart. Loves to clown around but get into our bad books..then you will face our wrath.

Sadly, misunderstood by most.

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Kuala Lumpur skyline

Stark contrast of the city skyline

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Sensational Adam Lambert




Read all about it guys & gals..Adam Lambert is going to rock & blow the music industry in proportions never seen before. Watch out for his new album. This is one artist whom I wouldn't mind buying an original CD.

He may not be crowned "The Season 8th American Idol" but I am sure many of you would agree with me that Adam is already a star with or without the crown. Adam's voice is so beautiful and mesmerizing. He has a gift which can captivate our hearts & imagination. Don't believe me? Listen to him sing his version of "Mad World".

Here's some of the comments about him:-

"Not only is Adam smokin hot on stage, but he makes us feel sexy, he makes us feel free, he gets us in touch with something we can't do for ourselves, he seduces us, he intoxicates us, he mesmerizes us-that is why ADAM IS A GLAM ROCK SEX GOD".

Kris Allen is a nice guy and a good singer, but he didn't bring anything to American Idol that we haven't seen and heard before. Adam Lambert is no flash in the pan. His voice is different and new. I already bid and won a CD that someone put together watching AI. It has 19 songs on it and I blast it while I'm driving in my car. I absolutely love his voice.
I hope is is around for a long time in the music industry. Shame on all of the people who couldn't get past his look and sexual preference to see the true star that he is.
Adam you rock!!!! P.S. I'm 54 years old

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Great Dance Moves



Don't you just wish you could dance like them?

Chorus ...shawty is a killa
but i really want him
and i gotta have him tonight
straight heart breaker
but it really dont matta
cause i really want him tonight...Wooow!

Saturday, December 13, 2008

Ouch! My Poor Back

H ooray! Finally after episodes of  intense  pain, I finally woke  up 1  morning  realising  I  am  in more  pain. It got really  bad, can't tilt or make any movement without  clinching my teeth.  Then   the  word "Chiropractor"  came  to mind,  I looked it up in the internet & the rest  is  history.  

That  brings  us  to  this  MRI  slide, compliments  from  HSC Specialist Center. Even an  untrained eye  can  detect  the  abnormality on the  disc. There is  a bulge and  it is  pressing on my  nerve creating  an irritated nerve.  Hallaluyah to MRi technology. Amazing! They  can pin point  exactly where is  the  problematic  area &  you are on the right track to recovery. Of  course, I still  have  to  go through  a  tiny  non invasive  procedure called  "Nucleoplasty". A small puncture is made at the side of the abdomen then  tiny plasma  wires  will be inserted  into  the middle  of  the  buldging  disc. It  is  supposed  to remove  some  tissues which will  subsequently  decrease  the buldge, moving it  back into  its position.  Procedure  takes  about  1-2 hours.  

When is the big day?  30 December 2008.  Should  be  in time  to  celebrate  the new  year  with a fixed back problem.  Here's a really GooOOODDD reason to  celebrate  the New Year, don't you agree?

Friday, December 12, 2008

ClubMed Private Beach

O ur very own private beach.  The  whole 3-4km stretch  for you to explore.  On a given  sunny  day, there is  a  high possibility  for  one  to frolick  around and  get some  great  tan. Not to mention the  water is  irressistable. But  hey if  you're  thinking  of  cashing  in  on the  low  season promos offered by ClubMed during  the  monsoon season..Forget IT..Don't say I didn't  warn you? You  will literally spend 3 days 2 nights in your  room and  the  restaurant. If you  don't  mind  just lazing  around and  eating and  more lazing  around  & more  eating.
W ord is this acclaimed  "Resort of the  Year 2007" has  somehow lost  its  original  lustre. Gone  are the days  where  holiday makers MUST hand-in their  mobiles  upon arriving, Bikini top Hawaiian girls with  garland  of  flowers, strutting  their  hawaiian moves as you walked  in at the entrance.  The  shell  beads  for  currency too is  no longer practised. So my question is , why do people still go there? It is  not cheap, mind  you? The  atmosphere  at the  resort  is somewhat like  any 4 or 5 star resort, minus  the  warmth of the  people.  
C lubMed boasts  of  friendly, people  oriented GO's  but  judging  from  my  short  stint  there, they were very superficial. I believe  the  GO's  have  been  advised to  join their  guests  during  meals and  that  is  exactly what they did.  They  lack communication  skills  as  many  just end  up sitting  there  like  couples  going  through some  rough patch the night before. I was  unfortunate  so to  speak as I had the  liberty of    6  different GO's  asking  to join my table, one  after the other  and  none seem to be  able  to hold  their  own what  more  to  create  interesting topics.  I  do  however appreciate  and  enjoyed Mr Marthen's company and  conversation throughout  dinner on the last day. He  is  Anglo Indonesian by birth  and  again I like  to stress that  caucasians  not  necessarily make  better  conversations  than us  Asians. Why have  representaton from  different  nationalities, some  speaking French,  Japanese, Arabic, Portugese, German, Italian,etc,  only  to  keep  to themselves.  I  for one  know for a fact that  everyone  loves  hearing  stories and  tales  from  different  cultures and  land. The key  word  is share  &  be yourself.   In any  organisation, it  is  the  people  that makes the  difference. In this instance, ClubMed  has 5 star  infrastructure , second to none but  they failed  miserably  in  their  quest  to  make  ones' stay  memorable & unforgetable. 

Run for your lives...little Tsunami

M onsoon season..they call it. I  thought  come on.. how  bad  can  it  be? It is  not like  as  though  we are  exposed  to great oceans like  the  Pacific Ocean or likes like  that. Believe me  it  is GREAT  enough!  Despite  being  warned by the  GO's (Gentille Officer.. excuse  the  spelling  if  it's  incorrect) not  to go  for  a swim, I  allowed  my  inner voice  got to  me. The  term  "Water Babies" means  anything to you? So, it  was  the  first  time since  arriving, the wheather  gave us some reprieve.  So  this  little  WB  sneeked off to the beach & was  gaming  to get soaked.  Who wouldn't? Have  you swam in the  South China Seas before? 

I wasn't going  to let this opportunity slip by.  Step by step, I inched  my way to the unknown........then  suddenly..I saw  a big one!  It was  not  like  Hawaii 5 O but  big enough!  It came  crashing  against  me  &  really  at  that  point  of  time, you  get  instant  flashbacks... "The New Straits Times -  Tour Guide  swept  away  by Monsoon Waves off Cherating Beach. Body  was  never  found"

A  nyway, all is  not lost  because  the  beaches  are  just  so  spectacular. Long stretches of  sand, as far  as  the  eyes  can see & clean too.  Along  the beaches,  there  are  cute  looking  cradles and  lazy chairs. I am  particularly  fond of  the cradle.  A word  of  advise, "Don't  go to Cherating during  the  monsoon season & expect  it to be  sunny!"

Malaysian Wonder


J ust when you thought you have  seen all of  Malaysia then you stumble upon another  of Malaysia's  natural wonder.  I give you, the Temerloh River or if  you prefer Sungai Temerloh. Have you  ever wondered  why  is  our rivers  of this  color? Wouldn't it  be  great  to  go for  swim? Well, Shirlene &  I  can proudly  claim  that we  did just  that  in Chao Phraya river.  That's  in Thailand,duh?

Hi Kitty..Kitty...Kitty!


B ehold! These "Kitties" are  really adorable. Makes  you  feel  like  you want to  cuddle &  snuggle    in between them. They  are  magnificent  & amazing  creatures. Need  to  be  up close  to appreciate. Really!  

Friday, October 17, 2008

Meet "Emm" The Baby Elephant



"Absolutely adorable", She loves  sugar cane & her trunk has  a mind of its own. Actually, she kind of sniffs out  where are those sugar canes.Not camera shy..especially  if  you  have  some scrumptious  yumm yumms for her & I kid you not ..those black  spiky thing is  actual   hair.  Try softening this...Vidal Sasoon!

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

My Grandma




"Mamah" "Mamah" khow ho ho,huh? Mamah tan wa lai hah. "Mamah, I love you very much" These are the words I used to say to her each time before I leave or before hanging up the phone. She would reply "I love you too" Her voice still resonates in my ears, her small petite frame..still so clear in my mind. I still feel her hugging me back so tightly like no one ever has.

"Mamah,you left so sudden. I miss you so much, my heart hurts so much,thinking of you". How I wish I could say "I love you very much" one last time and hear you say "I love you too"

Idham no natinam hotu sukita hontu natayo
Idham no natinam hotu sukita hontu natayo
Idham no natinam hotu sukita hontu natayo

Sunday, February 3, 2008

Mind Boggling Ride


Boy! Oh,Boy! This ride is one hell of a ride..alright. As a matter of fact, the night before the ride,gut feeling tells me this ride is not going to be one of the usual rides. It was so intimidating that I looked up the last writeup by 1 MTB rider in the HaSH website.

The ride from Kemensah to Sofia Jane is predictable however the tar road climb felt rather short. We regrouped & headed into the trail. I should say that the ride is good until about an hour later. The trail is madness, never have I imagined that we would be spending our Saturdays trying to get through from point A to point B, what more biking. The bamboo and overgrowth on both sides of the trail is at somepoints, unpenetrable. We, 12 riders have "Ramboman" to thank if not for his parang wielding skills, the ride would have been aborted.

The whole ordeal is unforgetable cos we had to carry, push, crawl on 4's & not forgeting we experienced first hand "AN ALL OUT ON SLAUGHT" of the leech Brigade. A fellow rider rewrote the world record for leech bite as he recorded 21 bites all over his body. I was lucky though as I only had 3. That makes me a corporal rank now.
I noticed the suckers seemed more aggresive as we threaded deeper into the jungle. They just wouldn't budge, not even by pulling them. Luckily, I was prepared & I testing out the effectiveness of the new "MOSIGUARD" which is endorsed by the Forest Reserve Department. All I did was spray onto them & shortly afterwards "IT" just kind of suffocated and fell off. Cool, huh? Actually, I go berserk & freak out when I encounter "THEM or IT". Yuks!

It was not until about 5pm that we reached a rideble single trail however I was not amused or thrilled as we are losing light and it was difficult to ride on a single trail going on a hunch alone. I have had my share of crashes & this is a recipe to a crash.True enough, I slowed down & a fellow rider over took me & he didn't go very far, probably about 5 metres or so & then CRASH!

I was on the verge of losing it when I reached a tar road. What came to mind was...Civilisation..PEOPLE..FOOD..I need a bath! We all soaked at a nearby river for a good half an hour then we head off to a nearby food stall. The initial plan was to ride another 30km back to our starting point but it was getting dark & we were all shivering & any longer, I am pretty sure you will read about 12 riders suffered Hyperthermia in tomorrow's newpapers.

Again, RAMBOMAN came to the rescue as he arranged fro a MPAJ truck to take us back to the city. 3 cheers for RAMBOMAN!Hip.Hip. Hooray!

Sunday, January 6, 2008

Beautiful, Green Malaysia!

Let's ride to Frasier's Hill

Yup! You read right..we cycled to Frasier's Hill from Kuala Kubu Baru. Journey took about 60km. It's uphill all the way. View is spectacular..waterfalls, dam, Orang asli settlement, forest reserves, above all fresh air & no noise pollution. Everything went smoothly until I decided to whistle the tune of "Kung Fu fighting" while decending from the hill. It hit me so fast, there was no time to take evasive action. CRASH!

Selamat Datang ke Malaysia!

Wow! So much has happened since I receive my badge on 6 December 2007. Assignments are endless and at odd hours too, not to mention the time you get home. All in all, I should say it is worth all the time & studying I put in to get through the exams. It is all worth it! Every minute of it!

To date I have clocked 16 assignments! Not bad for a newbie.

Friday, October 5, 2007

Fly high, Shirlene!

The anticipated day finally came. Woke up at 3am so as I could make it to Shirlene's place by 4am. We left in her car. She wore jeans and plain black coloured singlet and had an orange colour wind breaker (You know how it is with her,right? Plain colours is not her style) Then wait till you see the luggage bag, just imagine Dalmations or farm cows ..the black and white ones) Yup, you heard me right. That's her alright. We stayed at the airport till about 8am then we hugged and said our goodbyes. I considered myself lucky getting to send her off as Shirlene is meant for bigger and greater things. I know she has an appointment with her destiny there and you just watch her, she is not going anywhere but UP, UP and UP!

She had been my close friend, someone whom I call like countless times a day just to see what she is doing. I know it sounds pathetic but hey..she gets me through the day. Now that she has left, I feel a complete void in my life. I miss her so much and I wished I had been more composed to say "I love her and will miss her dearly" at the airport. Well, I guess it must be the age. Just disastrous when it comes to saying goodbyes.

Shirlene was no exception and as a matter of fact, I feel just as lonely and broken when Omero left for Qatar recently. They are the 2 people besides my family that really matters to me. (Hah! I said the family too, didn't I?) Honestly, I am closer to both of them. I don't know how but I must be strong and let Shirlene go with high spirits. (You read this, Shirlene?)

As much as I dread you leaving, I must be brave and swallow my loneliness and let you go. Soar high and you are very GOOD at what you are doing. I am proud of you and I can't wait till you come back in 3 months time.

Friday, September 14, 2007

An eventful day indeed.

Tuesday, May 8, 2007

On My Own

"If I lay here..if I just lay here, would you lie with me and forget the world"..hmm very touching lyrics I should say. My nights are usually the time where I could hear my own thoughts loud and clear. At times feels like just telling it to shut up and just let me be. I am tired. I am alone.